How to be proactive. What are the 4 stages of responsibility?

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What is proactivity?

Proactivity is defined as the approach of causing change and not only reacting to change when it happens.

It might sound very simple but the truth is most people are not proactive.

Proactivity isn’t just about taking initiative, to be proactive is to take responsibility for our own lives and not many people want to do that.

“Most people do not really want freedom, because freedom involves responsibility, and most people are frightened of responsibility.”

―Sigmund Freud
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How can we overcome perfectionism?

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What is Perfectionism?

Perfectionism is the attitude of getting absolutely everything right. Thus, it is also self-sabotaging.

In trying to be right we nit-pick everything around us and this overly critical nature seeps into all areas of our lives.

This makes it difficult for other people to be around us and even more difficult for us to be at peace with ourselves. To understand how can we overcome perfectionism we first have to understand why do we have it.

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